Love and Friendship

this is my second marriage and his. i met him in aug 1977  and married him in oct 1977. i dont no what it was but that was 32 years ago . i think it was love at first sight. thank goodness love is blind because when you get old you dont look as good. i  think  was love first  then we became best friends to.

OK darling I am reading your thread here.

I have been married for 30 years.  The secret is to have 2 houses.  The 2 houses are on the same 4 acres and they also happen to be attached. 

Also I think part of the secret is that she thinks her side is better than mine.

I hope this does not make seem like I do not like her side because she told me that we decorated her side and I had a vote that did not count.

Cybergeezer/Total_Mayhem  which side of our houses do you think is better.   Remember mine has M&Ms

I just had me a thought.  If you find somebody that can just put up with your stupidity and you can put up with theirs. 

Match made in heaven.

My wife has had it easy.  It has been a chore for me everyday. 

I hope she does not read this.  Tiny  I told her you know my password and she has not read this yet but she blames you when she does.

I vote for the M&M side. Ask Andersonbrent.

I am not dealing with this Brent person you speak of.  He eats to dang gone many of my tiny mosels from heaven.

With 4 Females living in the house I bought...

You know, The one that ''They let me live in...''

Well, what I have learned is, that the least amount of words I speak at home the better off I am..  That's why I have all you..  lol.. 

All kidding aside.. I love the 4 females.. When I met Momma_Mayhem she had a 6 Year old Daughter that her own Father never even changed her Diapers when she was little.. Nor, thought of much other than, being gone most all the time..  Fishing, Hunting & spending money they did not have.. He would never even watch his own Daughter while Momma_Mayhem would go to shop for groceries.. Then a set of Twin Daughters that were 7 months old, their Father, Drank & Smoked left handed cigarettes..So I'm told..I can't confirm anything though.. Just knew Both Real Father were not much from what others told me, and now I have seen..

Instant Family, "Just Add Dad"

I was Single, 35 years Old, Never Married, No children ever, Had a 1980 Low Rider Harley Davidson,  A 1997 Chris-craft Concept Bowrider Boat, A Home of My own & 2 Trucks that were paid for..  

So, I had to Understand that The choice I was to make was, to take on a Family of 4 Females from the start... Well, when I decide to do something I do it all the way... Sold the Bike, the Boat & the Home... Bought a Bigger Home that could fit everyone, it is now paid for...

It was 10 years ago when I met them, and 4 years ago I bought the house we all reside in now.... They must Love me some cause they all still keep me around.. 

Don't know why though.. I'm really No prize.. 

I do love all my "Gurls" 

Total_NowDadToAllTheGurls_Mayhem

T_M, Out & Over, What I Do Not Know.. 

I never ate any M&M's but did eat some great Habaneros..  

Rusty is your side that side that the transportation vehicles reside in..? 

I liked it.... 

I met my current hubby at work.  He was the accountant for the restaurant I worked for...he was the one who made out the checks.  Now I knew who to get in good with...lol.  This was in August of 1994.  He had a very sick little girl who was 4 years old...he had custody of her...and a little boy just over a year old.  My kids were grown for the most part....my youngest was 16.  We started out as friends....I went over to his house and we colored with his little girl...read to her....sit in the restaurant and talked for hours.  his little girl had her transplant in August of 1995 and he spent many months at Ronald McDonald House and Riley.  I worked a lot of hours and seen him maybe once a week.  We would go shopping or have dinner out somewhere if Lis was feeling okay that day.  I eventually quit that job for a better one and had weekends off.  In 1996, I got really sick and had to have a hysterectomy done.  He was there for me when nobody else was.  We moved in together in October 1996 and haven't been apart since.  We married the first time in October 1998. He was my best friend and still is.  Some of you know the story behind our relationship(this past year)...we were married for 10 years in October 2008.  We had to divorce earlier this year due to circumstances beyond our control, but we stayed together.  Last month, we eloped to Tennessee...never told anyone what we were planning...and we got married again on the same day of the month and the same time as our first time.  October 17th at 2:30p.m.  It was a small little log Chapel and it was beautiful.  It even rained just like it did on our first wedding day.  So now I can say I have been married for 3 weeks today....or 11 years.....LOL.  You know it must be true love when you marry the same guy twice!!!!!

How blessed you are to have a house full of girls, your life will always be full, Your girls will never forget how you made their lives better, and you will never forget how they have made your life more wonderful